When they fight

Have you experienced when your parents fight?? My parents did it tonight. I was making my project in the living room upstair  and heard some loud-hell voice from downstair. I thought my daddy and my sister or brother make some silly jokes. It was short but it was one of hell moment in my life. That is, when you see and hear your parents are fighting. I know what the cause exactly is and it is just the same problem. I get used to it because I think it must happen. Arguing and screaming means you are trying to blow out you anger or you disagreement. Some people know how to see it as something that can be solved by talking heart to heart, but some others do not. Everyone has problems, every family has problems, humans have problems. One thing I know, there are no problem can't be handled or solved. While you are facing problems, it means you're learning a life. You're growing up. You're alive. The important thing is the way you handle your problems.

I can't tolerate when my parents fighting for many days or screaming too loud until everybody in the house scared. I'm sure they know what they are doing so I don't want to get in to their problems although I get the impact of that. Being silent doesn't mean you don't want to help or pretend you do not care about what's going on but you want to clear the tense, controlling yourself. Smiling and trying to understand both sides is the best. That's what I do usually, and it works well always.

I still feel bad because of this thing. However, I don't want to take it seriously because this thing must happen and it just happens. It will be getting better tomorrow and next days. Wishing everyone in my home has a big understanding that everything must happen as God plans it. I trust Him.